I've
been really busy I just realized I have to write something down before I get
lost in my new busy world. The MRS world. I'm like "gotta write now, gotta
write now!" I have been writing couple of stuff about myself and my
love-life. I thought some of you have already read it and I hope it made you
think positively or helped you in a way. My last Blog was about The Social Media and how it helps me find My
Love. We'll let's fast forward a little. After 6 months of getting to know each
other we Tied The Knot on 2nd of June 2014. We are now married for 2 months.
Amazing!
Two
days ago my husband asked me
"Darling, if you would be able to change one thing in me, what is
it?" I heard it clearly and those silly and annoying things he
does over the period of few months living together has gone to an auto-rewind
in my head as if it’s a commercial on TV. I smiled and answered "Nothing
My Love. I cannot change those. You aren't perfect neither do I. You've been
very patient in me, I am grateful for that. I love you the way you are!"
As
cheesy as it may sound, Yep! I said it. Finally, I have admitted verbally to my
husband that those annoying and silly habits are not my main concern in our
marriage.
It
wasn't always like that. I was once a little startle how my husband miss the
laundry basket for his socks. I mean really, a few centimeter from each other.
Sometimes I ask myself why there are so many people running chasing one ball on
TV and why I am not watching some Drama Series. And one morning he breaks and scrambles
the egg yolk I wanted to eat sunny-side-up. I did not complain because I
thought "Oh! He will change."
Oh
he did! After sometime it’s not only the socks that he misses for the laundry
basket; the boxers and tees too. And because the World Cup is ON, my husband
has to stay up late till 1am to watch those people who seem to be
tirelessly-chasing the ball inside the "idiot box". The egg yolk is
still scrambled but now it’s not too boring as my husband put a little color in
it. Vegetables! These little things mentioned is just a few of my favorite
silly & annoying thing he does. That actually makes me secretly smile. You
ask why?
Here's
why...
My
husband might miss the socks, boxers and tees to the laundry basket but he does
the laundry without me asking. Especially when he knew I am busy mending my
monthly-sickness. Great helper! He also volunteered to work on the ironing
as I get tantrums every time I try to iron. Shame on me!
My
husband loves football. It is his sport. I realized it gives him tremendous joy
watching his favorite team scoring and winning. Once he took me out to watch a
match and I actually enjoyed it. He showed me; it is fun to watch sports;
outdoor or indoor. A very good mentor!
My
husband might make the eggs the way I do not want it to be. But he tries to
cook breakfast for me while I sleep-in. He gives me time to sleep more
specially on the weekends while he gets-up early to prepare some healthy
breakfast. He actually let me taste some-good-food I never have tried before;
He's a great cook!
You
see. I am so glad I did not complain when he misses the socks, when he watches
his football team on TV and when he scrambled the egg yolk. Just because he
could have done that in the best intentions he might have. Something that I
would have not known if I did not keep quiet, observe and eat the scrambled
eggs!
Of
course sometimes it annoys me. But nagging over that silly stuff is not going
to give me happiness.
One
day at a time I tell and explain to my husband how I would like the dirty
laundry to be in the basket. I reminded him that sports are good but he has to
stick on his sleeping pattern because he drives me to work before his and I do
not want him tired. And I love eating sunny-side-up eggs with just salt &
pepper on it because that's easier for me to chew and swallow food in the
morning.
Things
aren't always what we expect it to be but there are good things in it.
Just
keep looking!